How to understand that he no longer loves. A self-test of 8 questions

How to understand that he no longer loves. A self-test of 8 questions

“Happily ever after” without crises is only in fairy tales. In real life, we change every day, make decisions, make choices, come to the new thoughts. Accordingly, our emotions to the person change too. You think he no longer loves you?

If suddenly so happened that your beloved, in your opinion, is cold to you, do not rush to cry into my pillow or to collect suitcases. For starters, analyze the behavior in the following paragraphs. And if you match all, and then make an informed decision.

So, signs that a man no longer loves you:

1. You have broken communications. If the man began to dramatically disappear “at work”, “busy”, “tired”, while evaporation from the field of view is not only physically (he never arrives), but even he finds the possibility to call back or leave a message. As they say, my friend, a man can’t call on two occasions – if his fingers are broken or dead. Everything else means that he doesn’t want.

2. He’s close, but you have no physical interaction. It’s not just sex, but any tactile communication is as if vanished from your communication. He never hugs, kisses, and if you take the initiative, it shrinks and stiffens. A sure sign that a man excludes you from his own “near-field”.

3. From the speech disappear “your” words. Each pair has its own cipher code and your affectionate designations for each other at the moment when “my predatory cat” becomes “tat”, a secret code of intimacy dissolves as if you move out of their space. Of course, we are not talking about “single action”, and the trend.

4. He abruptly begins to underline your flaws, and those with whom he used to tolerably coexist: you’re a bad cook, you’re a slob, I’m tired of your friends, work, study.

5. Your help and responsiveness. Your problem now is only your problem. He or skillfully merges from helping you, or ignores your requests.

6. Relationships lost lightness and humor. No comment.

7. Time on you – it becomes less and less, and almost does not remain.

8. His life is covered by a web of mysteries – he will not share current events and future plans, not you.

And most importantly – do not need any special signs to recognize the “dislike” – if you’re able to see and feel your partner, you have developed empathy – you think the slightest change in behavior, tone of voice, in the space between you. If you don’t notice anything, but after the fact will learn the unpleasant truth, then, the question – perhaps you didn’t want to see, maybe you “finish” your reality your desires of what in reality did not exist? Perhaps the level of your internal communications have remained at the stage of “I think he thinks so…” and just sit down and talk is not enough strength and courage?

Therefore, if you have matched less than half of the points, it is likely you are just a little tired of each other, and eventually everything will work out. But if you coincided everything, or almost everything, then it is worth considering, whether to continue the relationship. Because to love a woman suddenly men are unlikely to succeed, likely discord in your couple has been brewing for a long time and now he no longer loves you. Look for causes and consider your actions. Good luck!

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