“I have a pathologically jealous husband, he is always watching me, checking his phone in the car is some kind of device that tracks my location. So hard all the time to explain everything and make excuses. How can that be?”
Tatiana, 37 years
Sometimes “pathological jealousy” actually turns out to be by delusions of jealousy, simply put, clinically manifested paranoia. But this occurs relatively infrequently. So let’s take a more common option, assuming that you had virtually no husband, and is the owner, and you’re not “over-man”, you are in subjection, you are not free, you are enslaved. So do items: they set alarms, protect a fence, conduct surveillance, guarding against the encroachments of others. And for many women this is the like decorate the jewelry of their “facade”, as they brag in front of friends and competitors, even like protect against “theft” (jealous). Even more surprisingly, women like “objects of ownership” — train myself to prepare for the fact that the “aging” them “replaced” and therefore are trying to extend their “shelf life”.
They know that the farther, the more they will “fall in price”, and soon they will have to “sell” a new, less demanding “novelty and quality of the product” to the owner. Live so very, very many. Decide for yourself — you’re one of them or are you still a woman — one of those who throughout the history of mankind has inspired great deeds of warriors, poets and scholars, who, married, gained the understanding, care and support, not suspicion, humiliation and persecution. Your problem most successfully describes the psychotherapist Mikhail Litvak: “Women, if a man is jealous of you, therefore, he thinks you’re a whore. Think about whether you have to live with it. But do not make excuses, because you are innocent. Only — why are you jealous you live?.. If your partner is in love distracting you from the things, reproaches, jealous, in General, inhibits your development, then it follows that he doesn’t like you. When you communicate with a person, decide good or bad. If you decide that bad, then stop trying to communicate with him. If you think good, don’t nitpick”.