Around love relationships are huge number of myths of popular psychology. We will debunk some of them. To live with illusions is nice only at first and then very hurt. 1. The myth of a decent partner Each of us dreams about the ideal. The trouble is that in the romantic period under the influence… More
I just want to warn some of my readers: please I have nothing. Any psychologist will tell you that the question sounds absurd, even though we constantly ask him. The fact that the relationship is always one loves and the other only allows himself to love is the same toxic stereotype, like “beats – means… More
Love is a wonderful feeling. It can visit you in the blink of an eye and just as quickly fly away from your life, leaving behind only memories. Sometimes the reason for the cooling that occurred between the partners, lies in the simple things – the habits that prevented to establish contact between two people… More
The continuation of the article “” How to break up – we were not taught. If opened such courses, they would be wildly popular, because life is full of partings: big and small, unexpected and natural, fatal and temporary. It is dynamic, we change, the world changes around us. Every moment we part with the… More
We are not taught how to break up – no one ever. Song said : “the Breakup is a bad omen, you will never see me again”. If not: “Parting – the little death” and “good bye!”. Directly shudder! A film so simply speculates on the theme of separation. What? Always tragic, spectacular. A full… More
The trauma of love – a state that occurs after a difficult or traumatic relationships. There are many ways that help to heal. Sometimes they are useful in themselves, sometimes help only in conjunction with therapy. 1. Stand in an active position in relation to the injury. Resist the position of sacrifice and submission to… More
Often partners complain that over time their loved one has changed, that in the beginning of the relationship he/she were different. But in fact, everything that has been impossible to ignore over time, evident in the beginning. Only in the period of love so want to believe in beautiful things that sometimes people don’t notice… More
For advice asked the girl who can not understand the relationship with her boyfriend. With burning eyes she begins to talk about her boyfriend, about how much she loves him and how she dreams about every new conversation with him. Thus their relationship is purely Platonic – they like to walk together and chat, but… More
What is true love? The one that occurs like a flash, at a glance, or touch. Or is that slowly, slowly, grows out of friendly sympathy, day after day, sometimes months or even years? What honest – an unconscious impulse or a well-informed choice? First glance Their eyes met, and as if lightning had struck… More
Parallel is a transaction in which a stimulus coming from one person, directly supplemented by the reaction of the other. For example, the stimulus: “what time is it?”, response: “quarter to six”. In this case, the interaction occurs between people in the same ego-States (Adult). Intersecting – direction of the stimulus and response overlap, these… More